Oliarl

40 – Abuja (lugbe), Abuja Federal Capital Territory, Nigeria

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About Her

Country of Origin:
Nigeria
Location:
Abuja (lugbe), Abuja Federal Capital Territory, Nigeria
Gender:
Female
Age:
40
Star Sign:
Libra
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Looking for:
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage
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About Her Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Anywhere in Abuja Federal Capital Territory, Nigeria
Gender:
Male
Age Range:
37 - 60
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
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Body Type:
Any
Looks:
Any
Hair Colour:
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Eye Colour:
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Has a Photo:
Not important at all
Ethnicity:
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Home Language:
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Other Languages:
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Religion:
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Relationship Status:
Any
Have Children:
Any
Want Children:
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Daily Diet:
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Smoking:
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Drinking:
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Education:
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Occupation:
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Income:
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  • Non-negotiable

In Her Own Words

About Her

The biggest thing I noticed between my international friends and my domestic friends was that my international friends absolutely, positively knew where they were going and pursued those ends with a laser-like focus.

I think it's very possible to have your basic needs met in the West and really not need to pursue anything else all that hard. Abundant, tasty food; decent, relatively easy jobs for anyone who wants one (compared to what they do for work -- for a lot less money, no less -- in the third world); rafts of consumer goods; and easy escapism in movies, TV, video games, and the Internet.

No scraping and struggling; no haggling; no fighting for survival, or just to get the things you want.

Life's pretty easy in the West, relatively speaking.

Unfortunately, that means we don't learn how to set solid targets and decisively push for the things we want -- and that is absolutely, positively, unavoidably a necessary trait for leadership.

That's why so many guys can't get a girl. Because a girl isn't going to just hand herself to a guy on a silver platter; it doesn't work that way. Women want to be led.

But most guys in the West can't lead.

About Her Ideal Match

well known for who I am and based on my standard. always want to learn things I don't know and been exposed to them

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