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The biggest thing I noticed between my international friends and my domestic friends was that my international friends absolutely, positively knew where they were going and pursued those ends with a laser-like focus.
I think it's very possible to have your basic needs met in the West and really not need to pursue anything else all that hard. Abundant, tasty food; decent, relatively easy jobs for anyone who wants one (compared to what they do for work -- for a lot less money, no less -- in the third world); rafts of consumer goods; and easy escapism in movies, TV, video games, and the Internet.
No scraping and struggling; no haggling; no fighting for survival, or just to get the things you want.
Life's pretty easy in the West, relatively speaking.
Unfortunately, that means we don't learn how to set solid targets and decisively push for the things we want -- and that is absolutely, positively, unavoidably a necessary trait for leadership.
That's why so many guys can't get a girl. Because a girl isn't going to just hand herself to a guy on a silver platter; it doesn't work that way. Women want to be led.
But most guys in the West can't lead.
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well known for who I am and based on my standard. always want to learn things I don't know and been exposed to them
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Nigeria | |
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Abuja (lugbe), Abuja Federal Capital Territory, Nigeria | |
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43 | |
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Libra | |
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